Love yourself! The one person who is always there for/with you is YOU. Don’t make him/her your enemy. The way you view yourself is important. If you hate your personality and looks you’re never happy. Just make peace with the mirror and then watch the reflection change. You need to set aside time for to work on your confidence it’s hard to change thoughts you had for years. Life is all about blessing in disguise. Success doesn’t need a plan sometimes you have to breathe, trust, let go and see what happens. And believe and preach this five infographics.
TIME HEALS EVERYTHING.
Dont underestimate your own abilities to handle the issue at hand. Although your problem may seem like a ticking time bomb at the time it hits, time really does heal many wounds. Even if, like me, time can’t heal you, it does have a way of making things seem less scary as it passes. Each new heartbreak is the equivalent of tearing open long healed wounds; the seams are strong but not impenetrable. They’ll bleed, but not forever. And when they do heal again, the wounds will scar over tougher than before.
And let’s not rule out completely acceptable remedies to life’s unfairness such as ice cream and Doritos. Paired with a good friend and rom-coms, they just may do the trick.
THERE ALWAYS WILL BE BUMP ON THE ROAD
“There always be an obstacle but that’s how we learn to drive and which road to avoid. Nothing will ever go the way we want it to but that doesn’t mean he headed in the wrong direction. Sometimes a change in direction leads to a special way.”
Life can be unfair in an infinite number of ways, and as human beings we are susceptible to feeling pretty down when it is. Maybe you’ve been diagnosed with an incurable disease, or you just have a bad case of the flu, you got called into work on your one day off, or you’ve been denied your dream job. In these cases when life has truly wronged us, should we just suck it up? I don’t think so.
Maybe we are built to be affected by tragedy. Maybe our hearts, just like all our other muscles, are meant to be broken down and reconfigured, time and time again. Maybe this is how they grow into greater, more magnanimous versions of themselves.
You ruin your future when you refuse to see the possibilities currently in front of you. When you become so transfixed with what went wrong, with how you used to be, that you are suddenly incapable of seeing anything else. We all have moments when we romanticize the past. There’s a beauty in our nostalgia. We like to just remember the good. We choose the best snapshots. It’s easier that way, to just gloss over the bleak parts.
Life is an unpredictable beast. You might be shocked with how she surprises you.
“If we stop doing things we are scared of we won’t be doing much. Fear is the part of the life and only thing to get over it is to go ahead and do what scares us especially if it brings closer to the life we want to live.”
You need to be braver than you. It doesn’t come easily or comfortably. You have to be willing to size up uncomfortable situations, recognize that you’re going to feel a bit out of your league while engaging in them, and then make the conscious choice to engage in them anyway. You have to learn to disconnect from that part of yourself that tells you, ‘No, stop, retreat.’ You have to barrel on despite it. You have to act in a way that is in conscious and deliberate defiance of your fears.
DO NOT SETTLE.
“Don’t stay at a job you hate don’t marry someone you don’t love don’t stay be someone who belittle you. Life can be good if we chose not to settle on things that’s impending our happiness
There will be more. So much more.”
Don’t settle for anything less than excitement and jumping beans in the pit of your stomach. Nothing less than forever. Nothing less than knowing, beyond on a doubt that this is love.You deserve someone who will smile at your silly jokes, who will kiss your forehead when you’ve had a long day, and who will absentmindedly reach for your hand across the center console when he’s driving, just because he wants to feel your fingers twisted with his.
Because I promise, you’ll find it. And it will be more beautiful than you ever imagined.
To My Fellow Women and Men too, Please Don’t settle
Not in a job you hate, not in a town where you don’t feel at home, not with friendships that aren’t real, and especially, especially not with love.
WE ARE NEVER ALONE.
“We are never alone in our struggles we will always find people who want to be there for us and support us and genuinely love us. Sometimes we think we are alone but that’s just our mind tricking us into thinking life is harder than it is supposed to be.”
Because it’s often in moments of solitude where you realize just how not alone you are. In fact, when you take a moment to be intentionally alone, to absorb everything through the sole filter of your perception, you understand that life is filled with people and things who accompany you. There is a confidence that comes from being alone, a happiness in the more simple pleasures that often go unnoticed when we are distracted by the presence and opinions of others. The crusty bread crackles in your ear when you tear a piece off. The steam from the coffee hits the tip of your nose as you put it to your lips. The small conversations that happen with the man you buy your produce from, or the girl let ahead of you on the subway, all become a kind of warm blanket of confirmation and life. The chatter around you can fill you up with varying degrees of comprehension, tuning in and out when it suits you. You are miles away from alone.
And it is perhaps this that it is most beautiful, most necessary about aloneness. It is realizing that what you’ve always feared, what you’ve always heard such horror stories about, isn’t being alone. It’s not “dying alone,” as if that were even a concrete concept. It’s all of the things that can lead to aloneness, it is the heartbreak whose pain we want to pawn off on the moments we’re sitting by ourselves in front of our stereo listening to the same song over and over again. The pain in loneliness comes from all that surrounds it, not the act itself. And when you spend enough quality time alone, you realize that it is indeed nothing to fear. You realize that you, by yourself, are happy and are confirmed in life and worth by everything around you. And though it will not take the edge off of the painful few moments that lead to us being alone, it is worth reminding ourselves that just because we’re eating alone at a restaurant doesn’t mean we aren’t in wonderful company.
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